I threw this question out to the universe a few days ago because it’s a subject I haven’t given much thought to and it seems like the answer is quite nuanced. Does an emotional connection make sex better? I think the answer is complex because the question itself is ambiguous. Let’s (hate this expression, but … Continue reading Does an emotional connection make sex better? (explained)
No. The rest is commentary (to follow).
The other night I met a guy for drinks. For months, mutual friends had been urging us to get in touch with each other – we have similar backgrounds and are in the same line of work and they thought we would make a good match. But I wasn’t crazy about his photos and apparently … Continue reading When a lack of self-control pays off
Some people feel very strongly against a hairy man. I mean, not as disgusted as society is at a normal amount of body hair on a woman (come on, that would be crazy talk!), but a lot of women I know are put off by what I would consider a normal amount of hair on … Continue reading The case for hairy men
I think so. Maybe not in the violent, earth-shattering way that a romantic interest can. A friendship heartbreak is a quieter kind of sad. Forgetting your favourite scarf on a bus kind of sad. It’s usually an unnecessary loss. If a romantic relationship ends, as painful as it may be, there’s probably a good reason … Continue reading Can a friend break your heart?
I’ve been putting off writing this post. Because I don’t know how to do him justice and, paradoxically because he’s too ridiculous to be idolised. My friend describes him as a cartoon character of a man – he’s a two-dimensional hologram, voiced by a soundboard of sexually aggressive phrases: “shut up, (sic) bich”, “you need … Continue reading The greatest fuck of all (II)
I have allowed many delicious men into my life and into my body, and have been fucked by them in more ways than I can count…tenderly, roughly, with love, in anger, loudly, softly, morning, noon and night, sideways and slantways and longways and backways and squareways and frontways and any other ways that you can … Continue reading The greatest fuck of all (I)